My grandfather Timothy Hamilton Sr. is a huge inspiration to me. He pushes me to be a successful young man by giving me advice, pushes me to reach my goals, and teaches me the importance of education and values of life. I admire how compassionate, hardworking, generous, and determined he is as a person. My grandfather works with construction, he loves to go hunting, and volunteer in community services. He puts his family first and only wants the best for them. My grandfather is a God fearing man. I aspire to be more like my grandfather when I become an adult. I want to make him proud because it would make me feel accomplished.
Xzavion Hamilton
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My Granddaddy, Theodore Hamilton was a man with integrity. He was a God fearing, family oriented person that made sure his family was his FIRST priority and that God was the head of our lives. A man that led and protected his family at all cost. Theodore was a respected man amongst his peers as well as in his community. He’s loved and missed by many. Wishing you a special Happy Father’s Day Granddaddy.
T’Keya Kelly
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My Grandfather, Johnell Perkins Sr, is one of the most inspiring people I know. He is selfless and true to himself, God, and his family at all times. He has taught me so many life lessons from when I was little to now being a college senior. He has been pivotal in making me into the person I am today. I am like him in more ways than one weather as my mother would say. He inspires me to never give up and to always keep God at the center of everything I do. I love him for everything he does and I’m truly honored to have him be a major part of my life.
Thank you! 🤍 Olivia Perkins
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My grandfather Isiah Hamilton Sr (Joelee) was a great influence in my life. I remember he used to work the night shift, but now matter how late he got in, when I woke up the next morning he would have my bananas and bubblicious gum on the dresser waiting when I woke up. He taught me valuable lessons like don't let anything stop you from sleeping, if something is bothering you are stressing you take care of it. Most importantly he taught me as a man the most important thing you can have is your word. So no matter what stick to what you said you would do.
Nicholas Doctor
The Powers Family of Rand Street
Barbara Johnson, Huntsville, Alabama
Mr. Monroe Powers and Mrs. Dicie Jordan Powers were long- time residents of Huntsville, Alabama. They lived for many years just in the bend of Rands Street. When you go downtown now, Rands Street is the street that runs east and west between Madison and Franklin Street and right into the Huntsville Hospital Emergency Entrance.
Mr. Monroe Powers was an entrepreneur in the city. He was known to most in the black community as the “Ice Man” and “Coal Man,” because that’s what he did; he delivered ice and cold.
The Powers family was a family of 12 children. However, only ten of the twelve survived five girls and five boys. All grew up to have families of their own. As one of the many grandchildren, I grew up also on Rands Street. I have fond memories of visiting my grandparents, aunts and uncles and all my cousins at the house on Rands Street.
Christmases were the best. The tree must have been 8ft. tall that set in the corner of the living room. Grandpa Monroe raised chickens and turkeys in the back yard, so there was always a big turkey for dinner. One big enough to feed the brood that usually gathered at the house.
Mrs. Mary Barkley was Grandma Dicie’s neighbor. She lived in the house on the other side of the graveled driveway. She was always friendly and could make us laugh with her many jokes. We made friends with her two grandchildren, Cookie and her brother Pasquale. We always thought of pizza when we said his name.
Down the street, on the corner, where there is a service station now, was Toliver’s Café. I was only allowed to walk there once, since I was so young and had to cross the road in order to get there. I can only remember that the 7-Ups were so cold and the lemon cookies in those big jars on the counter were as big as my hands.
Grandpa Monroe passed on December 5, 1960 and soon after, Urban Renewal took the house on Rands Street. Grandma Dicie moved to 1600 Belafonte Ave.
My Grandma Dicie as my siblings and I called her was a strong, family, oriented woman. She had to be. She raised ten children, five boys and five girls. She was about 5ft tall and weighed all of 130 pounds, but she was a quiet storm. She was a breast cancer survivor during the 60’s. I don’t ever remember her raising her voice at any of us for anything. But I can remember her moving swiftly around her kitchen with the coal stove, making biscuits, grits and brewing coffee.
I also remember her dressing up at least once during the week to attend her coffee club meetings. I don’t know what they did at these meetings, but it had to have been fun, because she never missed them. And it was her treat to always take a big plate of cheese straws to the event.
Grandma Dicie was a faithful member of St. John AME Church when it was on Church Street. She was there every Sunday. And when it moved to 229 Church Street in 1971, she still attended. She served as a Stewardess at the church.
It was my job on Saturday evenings to go to her house and roll her hair in preparation for Sunday. I loved her hair. It was short, very well taken care of because one of her daughters was a cosmetologist. And it was always dyed blue. Yep. That was the style to have blue/grey hair. She was not the only little lady sitting on the Mother’s Bench with bluing in her hair. That was the trend.
She always showed each of her grandkids love and affection. Although she was not one to kiss and hug and make a fuss over us, she always offered us food, had a kind, comforting word, and a smile that showed she cared.
In 1968, during the height of the Civil Rights Movement, James Brown made a song, “Say It Loud, I’m Black and I’m Proud” which gave African American a sense of pride in who we were. We began to love our skin, the rich culture that we inherited from our homeland Africa and much more. We, as African Americans, have a lot to be proud of. This week on my Spoil and ReturnFacebook page, I share some of the inventions by African Americans. However, in this article I am going to share a little pre- American History. The book, Slavery to Freedom: A History of African Americans by John Hope Franklin and Alfred Moss, traces African American History back to Africa and beyond. Please purchase this book from Amazon for under $50.00 for your library.
Most Africans came from the East Coast of Africa, but there were many advanced tribes in Africa.
These products included ivory, slaves and gold. The slave trade was different in that they were sold as wage earners unlike perpetual servitude in America. Just a quick reminder that Joseph (Genesis: 37) was sold into slavery. In 1235, Mali rose as a kingdom. Mali’s leader, Mansa Musa, was credited with leading Mali to greatest. He exceeded all royal visits to pilgrimages to Mecca. Mali was also known for agricultural, crafts and mining. Songhay, another empire was home of the great cultural, intellectual center and financial center, Timbuktu. The University of Sankore had a faculty of lawyers, geographers and surgeon. Schools were established everywhere with emphasis on teaching black and white youths, grammar, geography, law, literature and surgery. His is just a little taste of what the book contains.
I also highly recommend Before the May Flower by Lerone Bennett, Jr. You can purchase it from Amazon for under $20.00. If you have others, please post them in your comments.
Every American, African, British, Irish, Italian, Jews, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Mexican, Spanish, Indian, Muslim, Jamaicans, Haitians and the list goes on have a right to celebrate who they are and not be discriminated against. The truth be told, except for Native Americans, all of us came from other countries by force, famine, wars, drought, and the list goes on. Imagine how much more blessed we would be as a nation if we loved, embraced, and celebrated each other’s heritage? The challenge for you as grandparents this week is to select one group of Americans to introduce to you grandchildren. Start with people in your neighborhood, churches, or other organizations. Let’s embrace the history of others rather than condemn. Just for thought, why do you think others want to erase your history, but not theirs? What are they afraid of? All of us have rich histories. When we learn to embrace the history of all people, America will be a greater Nation.
In 1968, during the height of the Civil Rights Movement, James Brown made a song, “Say It Loud, I’m Black and I’m Proud” which gave African American a sense of pride in who we were. We began to love our skin, the rich culture that we inherited from our homeland Africa and much more. We, as African Americans, have a lot to be proud of. This week on my Spoil and ReturnFacebook page, I share some of the inventions by African Americans. However, in this article I am going to share a little pre- American History. The book, Slavery to Freedom: A History of African Americans by John Hope Franklin and Alfred Moss, traces African American History back to Africa and beyond. Please purchase this book from Amazon for under $50.00 for your library.
Most Africans came from the East Coast of Africa, but there were many advanced tribes in Africa.
These products included ivory, slaves and gold. The slave trade was different in that they were sold as wage earners unlike perpetual servitude in America. Just a quick reminder that Joseph (Genesis: 37) was sold into slavery. In 1235, Mali rose as a kingdom. Mali’s leader, Mansa Musa, was credited with leading Mali to greatest. He exceeded all royal visits to pilgrimages to Mecca. Mali was also known for agricultural, crafts and mining. Songhay, another empire was home of the great cultural, intellectual center and financial center, Timbuktu. The University of Sankore had a faculty of lawyers, geographers and surgeon. Schools were established everywhere with emphasis on teaching black and white youths, grammar, geography, law, literature and surgery. His is just a little taste of what the book contains.
I also highly recommend Before the May Flower by Lerone Bennett, Jr. You can purchase it from Amazon for under $20.00. If you have others, please post them in your comments.
Every American, African, British, Irish, Italian, Jews, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Mexican, Spanish, Indian, Muslim, Jamaicans, Haitians and the list goes on have a right to celebrate who they are and not be discrimated against. The truth be told, except for Native Americans, all of us came from other countries by force, famine, wars, drought, and the list goes on. Imagine how much more blessed we would be as a nation if we loved, embraced, and celebrated each other’s heritage? The challenge for you as grandparents this week is to select one group of Americans to introduce to you grandchildren. Start with people in your neighborhood, churches, or other organizations. Let’s embrace the history of others rather than condemn. Just for thought, why do you think others want to erase your history, but not theirs? What are they afraid of? All of us have rich histories. When we learn to embrace the history of all people, America will be a greater Nation.
In honor of Black History Month, today I am challenging grandparents to share your story with your grandchildren, children in your community and others in your sphere of influence. One of the reasons why people criticize our history, is because we do not speak up and talk about it. Yes, I know it has been difficult for many of us, but that is the only way that we can give our grandchildren and children like the courageous young lady, J’Niyah Suttles, at Hillcrest High School in Tuscaloosa , Alabama, HOPE. In her own words: J’ Niyah said: “Why am I being censored about my culture, something that is rooted in me? Why can’t I talk about it? History is history and it’s already been made and can’t be erased. It is very disturbing, it’s very confusing.” We must share with them our history. Although it is mixed with positives and negatives, our history is full with great stories of courage and resolve that must be shared.
In my book There Must Be Something in the Water www.spoilandreturn.com/books, one of the things that resonate with me was how my grandparents, parents and others in my community struggled, but they never gave up HOPE to fight for a better future for us.! Many of us are the benefactors of their hard work and tenacity. When the suicide rate among our children is at an all time high , we need to share stories of survival and success to give our grandchildren and other children in our circle HOPE and a will to live.
I know that this article will be read by people from various religious background, but it is not against the law to share your beliefs in your home with your grandchildren and others especially in your churches about how our God has made away for you get where you are today. The jobs that you have , the homes you live in, the other luxuries that you have and share with them, are only because of mercy and grace of our God!
On the Eve of Valentine’s Day, let’s share Love, HOPE and a sense of purpose with our grandchildren and others in our circle. “Share your story!”
I've always taught my grandchildren to put God first in everything they do. Every morning before going to school they must pray with each other and for each other. I tell them never ride with people they don't know or know where they're going. I recall my oldest grandson catching a ride home with a young man and the police stopped them because the car was reported stolen. Luckily he was able to get out of that situation because he knew nothing about what was going on. Lastly I tell them never hold anything for anyone, especially a book bag or purse. They may be carrying something illegal and if they are caught with it they will be the ones to get in trouble. I can truly say that the things I've taught them have been embedded in them and I know it's only by God's grace that they are kept safe.
Helen Hamilton
My Nana and granddaddy taught us to always pray, anoint ourselves before leaving the house, be respectful, be humble and always do your best in whatever you do. The one lesson that stuck with us was to have a mind of our own and never let anyone take advantage of you.
T’Keya Kelly
We enjoy being parents but we have to say, Thank God for allowing us to be Grandparents. As I travel, I like to look for different an unusual souvenirs; I have two grandparents’ messages hanging in my kitchen. One says “Grandparents are so easy to operate even a child can do it.” Grandchildren think this way because grandparents are more at ease at this stage in their life. We have seen and know more now, so we let them think that they have a little more knowledge and leverage. Another says “What happen at Grandma’s stay at Grandma’s.” For example the late night ice creams, staying up a little later etc…. But like Omare and Olivia will tell you “Granddaddy’s and Grandma’s rules and Mommy rules.” There are still rules that they will follow.
During the parenting year we are busy trying to be a good parent; running here and there, taking our children to games, piano lesson, and school events, doing homework and just making sure our children have the things we think they need. Don’t get me wrong we enjoyed it all.
Now we are in the grand parenting stage, “Grandparent Yes!” A time in life we can have fun with our grandchildren and then send them or take them back home. Knowing that we have instilled Godly wisdom and knowledge in them that will help as they go through life and being able to laugh during the difficult time.
I thank God for my Grandparents, for their Godly wisdom, lifetime knowledge, the love, and care they gave to us. I can’t forget the memories that comes to mind, that will cause me to burst into laughter and joy. (Granddad Isiah and Ben, Grandma Mary and Mattie, Love you always)
Dedicated to: Shanice, Juwan, Omare’, Olivia, Eden, LJ, Ariya, and Ryann.
Brenda H. Perkins
My Grandmothers, Mary Manigo Hamilton (Paternal) and Martha (Mattie) Boles Wright (Maternal) had character traits that I admired. Like Mary, the sister of Martha in the Bible, my Grandmother Mary was very meek and mild. She was a farmer’s wife. She worked beside my Granddaddy Isiah to help improve the quality of life for people in the community. I never saw her angry, never heard her raised her voice and she was always smiling. She lived to the age of 96 and remained the same even during her illness.
My Grand Mother, Martha was very smart, strong willed and had an abiding faith in God. She worked as a domestic cook for famous people like President Dwight Eisenhower’s Secretary of State Christian Herter. She got a chance to see how the haves lived and instilled in all her grandchildren a need for an education to improve our quality of life. She was also my spiritual Mother who led me to give my life to Christ at 12 years old. Both of my Grandmothers played a major role in shaping the person that I am today. In future articles, I will share more about them.
My Grand Fathers, Isiah Hamilton, Sr. (Paternal) and Benjamin Wright (maternal) were very much the opposite of their spouses. My Grandfather Isiah was strong willed, a farmer who God blessed with excellent farming skills and business skills. He owned his land which he used to plant cotton as a source of income for his family and the community. He was also blessed with a great voice that he used to testify to the goodness of the God.
My Granddaddy Benjamin was a gentle giant. He was a great story teller and would amuse us late at night with tales of the past fiction and non-fiction. He was also a strong man of faith and would walk many miles on Sunday mornings to go to church. I admired both of my grandfathers for being strong men who loved God, their families and their communities. In future articles, I will share more about them.
Abbiegail Hamilton Hugine
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